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Are You Struggling To Understand What's Happening in your Custody Battle?


Join the Union of Dads and learn the strategies top lawyers use to represent their clients in a Child Custody Battle.

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Did you know that Dads lose 80% of the time because they're not prepared?


Learn how to prepare your case, build a game plan, and have a strategy to win the Judge over.




You Can Be Battle Ready, and Show The Judge WHY and HOW You're a Great Dad.

Learn the formula for proving to the Judge that you're a Great Dad.  

  • Join a fellowship of Dads who are in the same nightmare.
  • Be able to dive deeper and plan your strategy with other men.
  • Get direct feedback from other Dads on how to handle the craziness.
  • Ask David those questions you need answers to by email or in the twice monthly Live MeetUps.
  • Build the life you’ve  dreamed of with your kids. 

Yes, It Really Is Possible!

As a member of the Union of Dads, you’ll learn how to represent yourself in court and how to take control of your family's future.



In The Next 6 Months, You Could…

  • Be Winning In Court
  • Have a Parenting Plan you love
  • Be the DAD you want to be

The right strategy moves can make all the difference. We’ll cover it all in the Union of Dads with courses like the Child Custody Action Plan, Discovery 101, Evidence and finally, Contempt for when your ex wont obey the Court Orders.

When You Join The Union of Dads You ...

End the Loneliness with Twice a Month Meetups

You join a group of men who are facing the same battles as you, have the same questions about how to handle this Battle, and together:

  • Make new friends who "GET IT!"
  • Learn How to Prove You're a Great Dad
  • Share How to Deal with the Craziness of the Courts
  • Safely express those feelings

You’ll be part of a group of men who will help you navigate court and life. The host, David Pisarra will be answering strategy questions and sharing what's helped other men.

Get Heard in A Men's Space to Be Honest In Our Private  Forum

Having a confidential, private, NOT on Facebook Group, we can make sure that any stalking exes can't just snoop on what's being said. You get to share the truth and not be worried about it biting you in the butt.

  • Be Safe Sharing What's REALLY Happening
  • Know that you are Not The Only One - you're not crazy.
  • Get the kindness and consideration you deserve
  • Know that you can be honest and validated

You’ll get the support you need to fight the battles and build a strategy.

Get Coached on Family Court Strategy by An Expert

You know the best players always have a coach, a strategy, and know how to implement it. Coaches are crucial for success. As a Union of Dads member you get access to David Pisarra in the Meet Ups and by email to review your Game Plan and work together on:

  • The different types of evidence you'll need.
  • How to write your declaration
  • The best strategies for proving you're a Great Dad.

You’ll be better prepared, for this, and EVERY OTHER BATTLE you have to face in Family Court.

Wont Be Left Behind - You Have a Video Library of Prior Meetups

Having a library of resources to rely on gives you hours of information. Union members get access to all the past recorded sessions so you never have to miss a Meetup or feel left out. 

  • All the prior questions answered are available for  your review.
  • 24 Hour Access to the Library
  • All our strategies are ready for you to watch and learn.

Get the Information you need today!

Hey Dad, I'm David Pisarra

After graduating law school and passing the Bar in California I started my law firm and the first divorce I did they fought over the bar towels they bought on their honeymoon (No Joke - the ones that say Harp/Guinness/Bass).

I quickly learned how men are treated in Family Court and realized that men need help. Over the past 20+ years, it's only gotten worse. Especially for dads. The more time I spent in Court, the more I realized something had to be done to help these dads who can't afford a lawyer, but don't qualify for Legal Aid.

We all know there are almost no Pro Bono services for men, and as much as I'd love to take on every case for free, the phone company, the electric company and my landlord demand to be paid. So I had to find a way for dads to learn how to help themselves. That's why I started the Union of Dads.

When dads learn how to develop their legal strategy and gather the evidence they need to show the Judge, they show how and why they are Great Dads.

I can't represent everyone. But I can help Dads understand how the  courts work, and help dads make a great first impression. I look forward to meeting you in the Union of Dads twice a month Meetups and helping you represent yourself and protect your kids. 


BONUS: DAD's Law School

For the Dad who is representing themself in court, these are the ESSENTIAL COURSES to understand what the Judge and lawyers are doing.

DADs Child Custody Action Plan

When you have a Custody Hearing coming up quick, you need to get into action to protect your rights. The Judge needs to hear from you. This is the FOUNDATION Course you need.

DADs Discovery 101

Discovery is the process of gathering the evidence to prove the other wrong. Subpoenas, Interrogatories, Request for Production of Documents, what it all is, and how to use them are covered in this course.

Evidence 101

Once you have the documents, you have to use them in court to prove  your case. Take this course so that you can use the text messages they sent. Learn how to introduce an exhibit and move it into evidence so you can win.

Contempt 101

You follow the court orders to the letter - the Ex, not so much. Or not at all. How do  you get them to obey? Take this course and learn what Contempt of Court means and how to get the judge to enforce their orders.



Monthly Dues

Only $97



DAD's Law School

(Essential For Self-Represented Dads)

1. Child Custody Action Plan - Be Courtroom Ready! 

2. DAD's Discovery Course - Find the Dirt  To Prove Your Case

3. Evidence 101 - How To Prove Your Case In Court

4. Contempt 101  -Make them Comply with Court Orders


Email Support - Ask a question and get a response within 24 hours by email.

Two Monthly Meetups to ask questions

DAD's Motivation Moments (SMS Text based)

A Man's Guide to Child Custody (PDF)

A Man's Guide To Child Custody (AUDIOBOOK)


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GET 2 MONTHS FREE ($194 value)


DAD's Law School

(Essential For Self-Represented Dads)

1. Child Custody Action Plan - Be Courtroom Ready! 

2. DAD's Discovery Course - Find the Dirt  To Prove Your Case

3. Evidence 101 - How To Prove Your Case In Court

4. Contempt 101  -Make them Comply with Court Orders


Email Support - Ask a question and get a response within 24 hours by email.

Two Monthly Meetups to ask questions

DAD's Motivation Moments (SMS Text based)

A Man's Guide to Child Custody (PDF)

A Man's Guide To Child Custody (AUDIOBOOK)


If you aren’t satisfied with Child Custody Champions let us know within the first 14 days for a full refund. No questions asked.