Stay in your child's life.
Be the rock they need.
 90 days to walk into court calm, prepared, and ready to fight for your kids.
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Unshakable Dad is a 90-day program for dads representing themselves in a child custody case. It’s built on the book Dad’s Child Custody Action Plan and taught by its author, David Pisarra, a California family law attorney with 27 years of family court experience.
- A 90-day roadmap in three phases, so you always know your next move
- Weekly live coaching on Zoom with David Pisarra
- A brotherhood of dads in the same fight, so you’re not doing this alone
- You leave with a finished Declaration and exhibit package
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Become an Unshakable DadIn 90 days, you walk into court knowing the rules, with your evidence organized and a steady voice.
Days 1-30: Reclaim Your Power
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Get steady and stop the damage.
Days 31-60: Reclaim Your Voice
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Build your case and learn to speak for yourself in court.
Days 61-90: Reclaim Your Kids.
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Walk in prepared and present your plan.
What Can You Expect with the Unshakable Program
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Everything you need to go from overwhelmed to prepared, in one 90-day program.
90-days of focused preparation
We meet every week by Zoom so you are not lost, scared, and alone the night before court.
90 minute weekly sessions
Enough time to go deep, ask questions, and work through the real stuff that matters.
Behind-the-scenes legal insight
You work with David and his 27 years experience to see how he looks at a case, and prepares for court.
Personal Power Track
Build composure under pressure, in court and out.
Brotherhood of Dads
Only dads, so you are not lost in the crowd.
A stronger way to walk into courtÂ
Not perfect. Not magic. Prepared. Capable. Clear. Head held high.
"This is not about turning you into a lawyer in 90 days
That is not the promise.
The promise is better than that.
This is about helping you become a prepared version of yourself before you walk into family court. A dad who understands what he is doing. A dad who has thought through his case. A dad who has structure and can face the judge knowing he did the work.
If your hearing is within 90 days, the clock is ticking. You don’t need another internet rabbit hole. You ordered the plan. Now let’s work the plan with a guide.”
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- David Pisarra, Esq. Â
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Is for You If ...
- You’re a dad in a custody or support case
- You’re ready to put in the work for 90 days
- You are representing yourself in family court
- You feel overwhelmed and don't know where to start
- You want to understand the process and speak for yourself
- You want to show up calm, prepared, and clear-headed
- You want to know you did everything you could for your kids
No judgment. Most dads aren't unprepared because they don't care; they're unprepared because nobody ever taught them the rules of the game and how it works.
Don't Leave Court with Regret...
- " I could have done a better job on my papers."
- "I wish I'd put in more effort."
- "I should have been more ready."
- "I didn't know what to say when it mattered most."
- "I forgot to bring the document that could have helped."
- "I let my emotions get the better of me in there."
- "I wish someone had helped me prepare for this."
Nobody can promise you a result in family court. But you can control how prepared you are. The Unshakable Dad is built so you never have to walk out with that feeling.
Your kids don’t need a perfect dad. They need an unshakable one.
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Unshakable Dad, Union of Dads, and Dad’s Law School provide general legal education, not legal advice, and do not create an attorney-client relationship. Results depend on the facts of each case.
